The proverb “ಅತ್ತೆ ಓಡೆದ ಮಡಿಕೆಗೆ ಮೂರು ಕಾಸು” (Three coins for mother-in-law’s broken pot) highlights the futility of focusing on others’ mistakes while ignoring our own flaws. This article explores how societal pressure for perfectionism often leads us to amplify others’ faults rather than addressing our own, resulting in a cycle of judgment and superficial criticism. By embracing self-awareness, accountability, and empathy, we can break this cycle, restore trust, and foster a more supportive and compassionate environment. Through personal reflection, constructive feedback, and creating positive social spaces, we can move beyond the hypocrisy of the “broken pot” and contribute to genuine personal and collective growth.