If you’ve ever felt an invisible drain around a woman—whether she’s a family member, coworker, or part of your circle—yet everyone else sees her as sweet, spiritual, or strong, you’re not alone. Some women project charm outwardly while cultivating subtle chaos behind closed doors. This piece is for those who sense something is off but can’t quite explain it, especially when guilt or obligation forces you to stay connected. By exploring the ancient Indian lens of ‘Alakshmi’ and the modern psychology of narcissistic women, you’ll gain the clarity to identify energetic red flags early, set protective boundaries, and regain your emotional footing—even when cutting contact isn’t an option.