This article is designed for newly engaged or married couples who are navigating the complexities of building a life together, adjusting to new family dynamics, and blending diverse backgrounds. As you step into a new chapter of your relationship, much of what goes unsaid—assumptions, family traditions, cultural expectations—can create misunderstandings or tension. Often, the root of these challenges lies not in what is explicitly communicated, but in the “frames” each person brings to the table—unspoken assumptions shaped by upbringing and experience. This article offers practical tools to help you uncover these hidden layers, both in yourself and your partner, so you can foster greater understanding, empathy, and harmony. By learning to read between the lines and adjusting your frames when necessary, you can create stronger bonds, reduce conflict, and navigate the complexities of your new relationship with more confidence and clarity.